Macey Mania
  • Blog
  • About
  • Books
  • What's cookin'?
  • UT
  • CA

Welcome to the
wonderful craziness
​of our lives!

Thoughts on General Conference

10/7/2018

0 Comments

 
Picture
It may seem strange to many people that members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints look forward to approximately sitting through 8-10 hours of church on TV every 6 months.   Haha! But it is true! I LOVE General Conference and the opportunity to hear directly from the Lord's living prophet and apostles. The simple instructions provided help me refocus my life and my efforts in striving to be a more Christlike person and keep evil from my home and family.

I feel that this General Conference I was especially focused on how the messages applied to me. Becoming a mom has been so wonderful, but it also scares me to think of raising Grace in such a confusing and misleading world. I wanted to know how to be a stronger, more prepared mother in teaching my daughter the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Picture
Well, General Conference definitely did not disappoint. We ate delicious food (stuffed french toast, anyone? Major yum!) , snuggled on the couch, invited over some friends and family, and glean many insights on how to bring the spirit into my home. The talks and music were truly inspirational.

​For those of you who are wondering what kinds of things were taught in General Conference this October (or for those of you who just want to know what things especially popped out at me), here are a few of my notes and biggest take-aways:
  • Although Sunday church meetings are being shortened from 3-hours to 2, the extra hour should be planned for and used to bring spiritual discussion in our home. If we honor this Sabbath day by going to church to partake of the Lord's sacrament and then continue in a spirit of reverence and learning in our homes, we will be strengthened against perilous times.
  • Many of the talks centered on facing difficult things. Our Heavenly Father wants us to find joy, and we CAN (even in trying times). We must combat adversity in the Lord's way and always rely on the strengthening power of Christ's mercy and grace to pull us through. Do not fear! Live worthy to have the Spirit, and he will dispel fear and doubt.
  • If we want to be strong parents, we must always have a foundation on Christ. Make traditions as a family that strengthen our relationships with each other and with God. These traditions will create a culture of love, respect, and unity.
  • The more we love God, the happier we become. One of the best ways to love God is to love and serve his children. Many of the talks focused on how we can befriend others and minister to their needs. We can help others feel God's love for them.
  • Along with serving others, another main message I hear was "Act now!" Respond to the whisperings of the Spirit. Even when I feel insignificant in my actions and that I am not enough, Christ will multiply my efforts. Never stop loving and doing small acts of good.
  • No one can do what a righteous woman can do. The nurturing influence of mothers is powerful, and mothers play a key role in carrying out God's plan for his children. As a woman, I can participate in the Lord's work. 4 specific things the living prophet has instructed me to do are:
    1. Have a 10-day fast of social media and any other media that does not bring the spirit
    2. Read the entire Book of Mormon by the end of the year (see reading schedule below for suggested pacing)
    3. Regularly attend the temple
    4. Participate fully in Relief Society (the church's women's organization)
  • The name of God's church is important to get right: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (not LDS, not Mormons, not the Latter-day church). When we remove the name of Jesus Christ from His church, it is a major victory for Satan. The full name announces to everyone who is the true leader of the church: Jesus Christ, himself. We aren't just following a prophet, or Joseph Smith, or Mormon; we follow the Savior and live His restored gospel in His way.
"Never suppress a charitable thought."
If any of these messages speak to you, I encourage you to read/listen to the messages presented at this General Conference.  You can watch the talks here, or they will be written and published at lds.org. As I listened to the speakers and music this weekend, the Spirit testified to me that God knows me and loves me. He is proud of the work I am doing as a mother. I am so grateful for the guidance provided in the scriptures and through church leaders that helps me leave the worldly influences behind and follow with confidence the will of my Father in heaven.
Picture
0 Comments

Life is crazy, but we are blessed

3/19/2017

0 Comments

 
Truth: Life is tough

Truth: Life has been really tough for me lately.

Truth: I've had thoughts of quitting my job as a teacher.

Truth: I am frustrated that I am not pregnant yet.

Truth: I am unhappy with my weight and how I look.

Truth: Andrew's current job assignment is frustrating and unfun.

All of it is true, and I could probably write a full, long, detailed blog post about each one of the above truths. But there is another truth that Andrew reminded me of yesterday after we left our Stake Conference:

Truth: We are very blessed.

It is so difficult to look at all the blessings, especially when you want to just focus on all the things that aren't going your way. But the fact is, Andrew and I are very, very, very blessed. So here is a small list of our blessing to counteract all the negative and difficult trials we are currently facing.

Blessing 1: We both have great jobs that push us to be better and challenge us. Yes, there are elements to our jobs that we would love to change, but really what job out there is 100% perfect? For me, I get to interact with people constantly; I get to be creative; I get to be a goof as I teach and entertain; I have great support in my coworkers; I love my students. I really could go on and on about how teaching truly is the job for me. I am blessed to be a teacher.

Blessing 2: Medicine is truly a miracle. I am grateful that there are doctors and medicine that can help Andrew and I get pregnant. Long story short, for some reason I stopped ovulating right about the time we decided we were ready to have a baby. It has been a long and frustrating 6 months, but this week I went to a new doctor and he prescribed some medication that he is hopeful will help me ovulate so that we can get pregnant.  When I told my mom about the medicine he prescribed, she told me that another girl we know took it and it  (and I quote her exact words) "kinda wreaks havoc". Needless to say, I'm pretty nervous. But in the end, I'll take all the crazy emotions and bloating if it will help my body correct itself and helps me have a baby. So modern medicine is a huge blessing for us right now.

Blessing 3: Andrew and I have a fabulous relationship. We also have great relationships with our family. We are surrounded by love. Truly, what more could you wish for? I thank Heavenly Father every single day that I am so blessed to be Andrew's wife. He makes me so happy and buoys  me through depressing moments. We support each other in our goals and celebrate each other's victories. It is a beautiful marriage, and I am most grateful for this blessing in my life. 

So I'm sure life wont all of a sudden become easy and trial-free, but I am grateful that Andrew had the impression that we need to focus more on the blessings rather than the difficulties in our lives. 

0 Comments

Spiritual Musing: The Holy Ghost

5/23/2016

0 Comments

 
I was blessed to have the opportunity to teach Relief Society last Sunday. The lesson was based on President Eyring's October 2015 General Conference talk entitled "The Holy Ghost as Your Companion". 

From last week's spiritual musing post, it's no secret that happiness has seemed to evade me for the past few months. While I set some goals to prioritize my life and focus on things to make me happy, I think the real purpose of those goals is to help me feel more of the Spirit in my life. So this lesson's topic was a great way to remind me of the many blessings of the gift of the Holy Ghost.

Elder Eyring starts out his talk by stating his objective (as a teacher, I love that he does this). He says it this way: 
My purpose today is to increase your desire and your determination to claim the gift promised to each of us after we were baptized. During our confirmation we heard these words: “Receive the Holy Ghost.” From that moment, our lives changed forever. 
As I read this, I interpreted desire to be the acknowledgement that we want to have the Spirit. In order to increase this desire, President Eyring goes through a list of blessings that we receive through the gift of the Holy Ghost. These are:
  1. The Holy Ghost protects us and those we love from danger and from sin.
  2. It warns us of evil and strengthens us to do good.
  3. It makes us desire to do good, and makes sin less attractive.   (see Mosiah 5:2)
  4. It allows us to discern truth from falsehood (especially spiritual truths that are vital for our return to our Heavenly Father).
  5. It gives us hope and comfort in trials (especially when dealing with the death of a loved one).

Just from reading this list, looking for examples of these in the scriptures, and contemplating how I have seen these blessings in my own life already helps me increase my resolve to have these blessings more abundantly in my life.

But President Eyring acknowledges that we know that it is difficult to maintain the Spirit in our lives. That is where determination comes in. In my mind, determination means that we are willing to do anything to have the Spirit. Here are the things President Eyring suggested for qualifying for the gift of the Holy Ghost:
  1. Let charity and virtue abound in your life (see D&C 121:45). Love others. Stand in holy places.
  2. Act on each small moment of inspiration.
  3. Pray with faith.
  4. Know the scriptures.
  5. Learn to recognize how the spirit speaks to you.

This post is seriously just a quick skim through his talk. Within these teachings, he gives examples taken from the life of his own father.  Go read it here! It's wonderful.

But by far, the most wonderful thing I experienced while I shared this lesson on Sunday was the simple, small hug of the Spirit reminding me that my Heavenly Father loves me and wants to bestow all of his promised blessings upon me. As I shared my thoughts, I began to cry because I knew the Spirt was in that room testifying of what I taught. I knew that, even through my unhappy moments in the last few months, my Father in heaven was aware of me. I've promised Him that I will strive to live more worthy of the gift of the Holy Ghost that I received shortly after I was baptized. I will not forget that gift.
0 Comments

Spiritual Musings: Andrew's advice on how to be happier

5/22/2016

0 Comments

 
I've decided I want to write on this blog at least 2 times a week. One will be about the weekly going-ons for Andrew and I; the other will be a focus of something spiritual I have contemplated throughout the week. 

So here is my 1st spiritual musing: how to be happier.

Now, I don't want to come across as super negative, but I also want to be honest in this first spiritual post. The truth is, I haven't felt truly happy in a while. (No, this is not about my marriage. That part of my life at least is exactly what it should be). This Saturday, when suddenly I burst into tears during a date with Andrew and cried that I didn't feel happy, I knew I was hitting an all-time low...and I didn't like it.

Luckily, I am married to an amazing man who has wise spiritual insights. As I cried into his lap he asked me two simple questions:
  1. ​How do you feel about your relationship with God?
  2. How do you feel about your relationship with yourself?
I was horrified to realize that I don't feel at all confident in either one of these relationships. I feel like I have allowed life to get me too busy to really meditate and feel the spirit lead me. And I also feel like I have allowed more self-deprecating thoughts to enter my mind about myself lately. These are obvious contributors to my unhappiness.

Andrew explained that his mission president taught them years ago that there are 3 important relationships to focus on as missionaries: 1. their relationship with God, 2. their relationship with themselves, and 3. their relationship with the Taiwanese people (where he served his mission). The mission president explained, "If you don't first have a solid relationship with God and yourself, you will not be able to fully connect and love the people you serve, and you will not be able to experience a true fullness of joy." 

As I've thought about this, I've decided that I really do need to spend more time every day strengthening my relationship with God and learning to love myself more fully too. This is how I plan to do it:
  1. better scripture study- The missionaries came over for dinner last Sunday, and their simple message was "Study the scriptures so that you can partake in all the blessings Heavenly Father has in store for you." I need to live this.
  2. time to meditate every day- I've gotten in the bad habit of coming home exhausted from work and mindlessly turning on a TV show while I wait for Andrew to call me after work. I need to better use this precious time by reading good books, writing in my journal, or studying an inspired topic from General Conference. I know that if I take a little time each day to sit quietly and exercise my mind and spirit, I will be more satisfied with my day.
  3. exercise- Ok, but seriously, I know that I will feel better about myself if I am more diligent in keeping my body healthy and strong.
  4. do little things that make me happy- Andrew insisted that I include "get my nails done" on my list. He claims that if this one simple thing makes me feel more put together and beautiful, then it is worth the $20 every few weeks. He really is so sweet. This goal may also include talking to family or friends every day, or making something delicious and fun for dinner. 

So there you have it. I am going to experiment with these goals for happiness over the next few weeks, and hopefully I will be able to report back good things. 
0 Comments

    Andrew and Maichael

    Check out our About page to learn buckets about us.

    Categories

    All
    Baby
    Family
    Spiritual Musings
    SRMS

    Archives

    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    May 2020
    February 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    May 2019
    March 2019
    January 2019
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015

    RSS Feed

Proudly powered by Weebly
  • Blog
  • About
  • Books
  • What's cookin'?
  • UT
  • CA